A letter to the woman who has been cheated on
A letter to the woman of God who has been cheated on,
I know that you feel abandoned, used, worthless, rejected, ugly, like you can’t move on, stuck, and thinking to yourself, “What is wrong with me?”. You might be asking what your spouse saw in the other woman that you didn’t have, why would he turn you away? The devil has been planting thoughts of insecurity, rejection, depression, and confusion. Surely your life can’t go on? You can’t serve God like this anymore? What will people say? What will your future be like? You might even be feeling alone, and ashamed. You smile around people, but deep inside you wish you could tell them what you're going through.
But God has been speaking to me about you this whole week. God has been thinking about you. He has not forgotten you. He has not turned his eyes away from your teary eyes. He has not closed His ears to hear your silent cries. He has not closed His heart to your heart. The nights you’ve spent pondering on the thoughts rushing through your head, He was there holding you. The nights you’ve spent crying and feeling rejected, He was there wiping every tear from your eyes. The nights where you asked Him “Why God? What is wrong with me?”, and it seemed like He didn’t respond. He was there, listening.
This is God’s responds to you.
I have not forsaken you.
"The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”- Deuteronomy 31:8
I have heard every cry, and seen every tear.
"I am worn out from my groaning. All night long I flood my bed with weeping and drench my couch with tears. My eyes grow weak with sorrow; they fail because of all my foes. Away from me, all you who do evil, for the Lord has heard my weeping. The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer.”- Psalm 6:6-9
Your worth has not changed. You are still as valuable, and beautiful.
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.- Psalm 139:13-16
The demonic spirits that attack the minds of married men to cause them to commit adultery are very real. These demons do not choose the “other woman” by their beauty, body, money, age, etc. You are not less than, you are enough. Adultery has very little to do with how the other woman looks like. It is a spirit of lust and seduction that its only purpose is to separate marriages, and destroy lives. These demons do not respect the ones serving in ministry more than the ones who do not. These demons have been roaming since the fall of satan and his angels. Their only purpose if to kill, steal, and destroy. Their purpose since the garden of eden was to bring separation to the union that God established between woman and man. Their purpose is to destroy God’s institution of family.
Listen to me woman of God. What happened has nothing to do with your body, age, or worth. You are still beautiful, valuable, and your worth had not changed.
Give your heart to Jesus today. Let Him heal you. Let Him bring you back to the place where your soul has rest. He wants to restore your heart today. No matter what happens, know this. As long as your heart is in God’s hands, it will be healed, it will stay strong, and you will laugh again. As long as your life is in His hands, you will be okay.
Whatever the enemy tried to do, to destroy your life and calling. God is turning things around. You will not be marked by a false identity. You are not forsaken, rejected, worthless, or ugly. You are still chosen, you are still sent, you are still loved, you are still beautiful.
Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
No matter what your spouse chooses, or where your marriage stands today. God wants you to know that His plan for YOUR LIFE still stands. He has not changed His mind about your calling or anointing. Your life is in the hands of the Lord. You will prosper. You will get out of this victorious.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
You will be healed.
Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
I am praying for you.
“Lord I place the life, the heart, the calling, and the husband of the woman reading this today in your hands. I pray that you will bring them out of this situation quickly. They will not remain in the lies of the enemy. They will not remain stagnant because of this. They will move forward victorious. They will be healed. They will laugh again. They will serve you. I pray restoration over their lives. I pray joy unspeakable. I pray peace. I pray your presence over them. I pray in the Name of Jesus! That your will be done. Amen.”
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